Success of Secrets Story
Hello Friends, Today we will discuss some special tips for real life success, reading the story to the end will be very useful to you, so I kindly request you to read the story to the end !
Success is a Golden Deer
121. "Today is yesterday\'s pupil." - Benjamin Franklin
122. If you have a choice of taking two paths, always take the more daring of the two.
Calculated risk taking often produces extraordinary results.
Learn to Value Time
123. Every day, get away from the noise, the crowds and the rush and spend a few hours alone in peaceful introspection, deep reading or simple relaxation.
124. That which any person who has walked this Earth has achieved you can achieve with the right mental attitude, perseverance and industry.
Limiting thoughts and weak mental images must be banished. One\'s focus must be on the attainment of goals that are truly important.
125. Get into the habit of memorizing beautiful poetry.
Not only will it be a great source of
entertainment but it will quickly lift your intellectual functions to a higher level by improving your memory, concentration and mental agility.
126. Keep your words soft and arguments hard.
127. Break the worry habit by putting things in perspective and laughing over small setbacks.
Repeat to yourself that "this will soon pass". Then take a sheet of paper, write out the worry on your mind.
Allot a certain period of time to think on it, isolate the precise problem and formulate a powerful line of attack.
By this practical technique, your negative, energy sapping habit will soon be a faint memory of the past.
professional excellence
128. Be known as that person who goes the extra mile. The person who works longer than others.
The one who takes on the extra assignments and follows them through with great success.
Be the person who always has concerns about others and who makes family members feel truly special.
Be a standout, the one with a balance in both personal and professional excellence.
Be a star that shines brightly for all others to admire
129. Become a committed and sincere networker. Cultivate new friendships.
You will truly be surprised where people end up over the years and how small, kind gestures will help you later on in life.
Treat everyone who crosses your path as if they are the most important person in your world. You will certainly meet with great success.
130. When you look for something you will find it. If you constantly expect exceptional success, you will surely have it.
Peak performers attract success. You must keep the goals you desire to achieve at the forefront of your mind throughout the day.
Repeat your ambitions at least five times a day and visualize yourself achieving them.
If your goal is to be rich, picture the house you will be living in, the car you will be driving, what it will feel like to be rich and the pleasure of attaining your goals in life.
Repeat your ambition over and over until you have complete certainty that you will attain your desires and eventually you will.
131. Develop a sense of wonder about the world. Be an explorer
Find pleasure in the things that others take for granted. Stop and actually listen to that wonderful street musician playing the trumpet.
Read that classic book your father loved so much.
Plan to get away from the city next week and visit a secluded, powerfully natural place for a few days.
Take a mini-retreat and care for your mind, body and spirit. It will profoundly improve the quality of your life.
132. Send cards on birthdays and little notes from time to time showing that you care and were thinking about your relations.
We are all busy but if you spend just five minutes a week to send a card to a friend or family member, by the year end you will have sent out 52 cards.
This is a small investment for the dividends that are guaranteed to follow.
133. Remember and use people\'s names when you talk to them.
A person\'s name is a uniquely sweet sound to them.
134. Go outdoors and look up into the blue sky for half an hour.
Note the supremely strong feeling that you get when you are connected to Nature.
Get away from your rigid schedule today and spend the afternoon in a beautiful setting.
Walk in the woods and sit by a cool stream. Go fishing or rent a canoe.
Getting away from your routine will provide a refreshing release and make you feel wonderful when you eventually return.
Appointment
135. Once every few weeks, leave your watch at home. In this society we often become bound to the clock and soon it governs our every action like a rigid taskmaster.
Go through the day doing precisely what you wish to do and for however long you wish to do it.
Spend time with that special person without having to run off to your next appointment.
Savour the moments and focus on what is truly important rather than those mundane things that somehow take on a greater importance than they really deserve.
Lose the clock and gain some quality time
136. Laugh at work and be known as a positive achiever.
137. An idea gives rise to a mental image. A mental image will then generate a mental habit out of which a mental trait ultimately blossoms.
Master your thoughts and you master your mind; master your mind and you master your life;
master your life and you master your destiny.
power of opposition thinking
138. Recognize the tremendous power of opposition thinking.
This simple technique simply involves the substitution of a positive thought each and every time a negative or limiting thought enters your mind and begins to detract from your focus.
For example, on a Sunday evening, you may think "I wish I did not have to return to work tomorrow after such a pleasant and relaxing weekend."
Immediately replace this defeating thought pattern before it begins to take hold by thinking the opposite.
For example you might think "I cannot wait to return to the office given the exciting projects on the go and the wonderful sense of accomplishment I receive after a productive, challenging week.
" Then think how fortunate you are to have a job and one that you can advance in through your own efforts and productivity.
Make a list of all of the positive attributes of your position and repeat them over and over.
Soon the negative pattern will be broken and you will look toward the exciting week ahead with that most fabulous of qualities: enthusiasm.
139. Get deep into the habit of personal introspection. Ben Franklin called this one of the most important strategies for personal effectiveness.
Spend ten minutes every night before you go to bed in self-examination.
Think about the good things you did during the day and the bad actions you may have taken which you must change in order to excel and grow.
Successful people are simply more thoughtful than others.
Daily reflection will soon allow for the eradication of your negative qualities (ranging from procrastination to gossiping to insulting others) and will sharpen the mind.
After steady practice, a time will eventually arrive when the mistakes you make are few indeed and your personal power will move to the highest level.
140. The most efficient and effective alarm clock ever developed lies within our own minds.
If you do not believe this, try the following:
1. Sit in an easy chair approximately ten minutes before you go to bed.
2. Shut your eyes and gently rest your hands on your knees.
3. Breathe deeply for a few minutes (inhale to the count of five, hold to the count of ten and exhale fully).
Repeat the following command
4.Repeat the following command to yourself at least twenty times:
"I will awake at (the desired time) feeling fresh, alert and enthusiastic.
" This command must be said with feeling and emotion.
Then take a few seconds to visualize yourself waking up at the desired time (the more detailed the mental picture the better) and imagine how great you will feel.
You will soon wake up at the desired moment after little or no practice.
141. Some men see things as they are and say "why ?
" I dream of things that never were and say "why not ?
" George Bernard Shaw
142. Use these strategies to improve the quality of your mind-calming meditation:
1. Practice meditation at the same time each day and in the same place so that your mind becomes accustomed to entering the desired serene state as soon as you enter the peaceful place.
2. The early morning is undoubtedly the most powerful time to meditate.
Indian yogis believe that the pre-dawn time has almost magical qualities which aid in achieving the super-peaceful state so many meditators attempt to attain.
3. Before you start, command your mind to be quiet by using affirmations such as "I will be focused and very calm now."
4. If thoughts do enter, do not force them out but simply let them pass like clouds making way for the beautiful blue sky.
Picture that your mind is like a still lake without even a ripple.
5. Sit for ten minutes at first and then increase the time every few sittings.
After a month or two, you will not be interrupted by any pressing thoughts and will surely feel a sense of peace that you have never felt before.
Develop long lasting friendships
143. Forge and foster great friendships as such relationships are essential for maintaining a healthy and successful life.
Find a few minutes every day to jot down some warm wishes to an old friend or to place a telephone call to someone you have not had a chance to speak to for a while.
Show compassion and sincere consideration for all your friends and watch the results which follow.
Develop long lasting friendships by being a good friend. Also, make it a priority to seek out new friends no matter how many you may be fortunate enough to have.
This is one of life\'s greatest joys which many of us miss.
144. Purchase a cassette or CD of Miles Davis\'s Kind Of Blue. It is a uniquely soothing compilation that will refresh and soothe you after a challenging and productive day.
Music such as this is good for the soul.
145. Drown your appetite by drinking more water - ten glasses a day is ideal.
It revitalizes the system and purifies the body.
Also, get into the habit of eating soups and more complex carbohydrates such as rice,
potatoes and pasta which feed your hunger with far less calories than other less healthy foods.
You truly are what you eat and must ensure that your diet is designed to maximize your energy and mental clarity.
146. Develop the essential habit of punctuality for it is most important for high success.
Punctuality reflects discipline and a proper regard for others. Without it, even the most sophisticated person appears slightly offensive.
Do not be early and certainly never be late.
Budget your time and, should you arrive early, take a walk or simply relax for a few moments to ensure that you arrive on time as requested.
You will be appreciated and welcomed always if you cultivate this important quality that appears so rarely these days.
147. The telephone is there for your convenience, not for the convenience of others who are attempting to contact you.
If you are busy with a task, do not answer the phone or have someone answer the call so that you may return it at a more suitable time.
Do not let such interruptions waste your time.
Most phone calls are not important and last far too long anyway.
Over the course of the average American\'s lifetime, she will spend two years unsuccessfully returning phone calls.
There are so many important and fun things to do in life.
The challenge is to respect precious time so that we can achieve a fuller, more satisfying life.
148. Start your day off well. Before you get out of bed each morning, say a prayer or repeat your personal affirmation giving thanks for the day and all the positive things you will see and achieve.
Make a conscious decision to make this the best day of your life and meet with pleasure, success and fun.
If you believe it, it will most certainly happen.
A timeless secret for lifelong success is to live each day as if it were your last.
149. Confide in your partner. This will strengthen the relationship and allow you both to grow at the same pace.
It is also a wonderful tonic to share important or otherwise troubling things with the person you are closest to.
Winners on the playing field of life
150. Push yourself just a little harder and a little farther each day.
Winners on the playing field of life push the envelope of their potential daily.
Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain.
Winners do the things that less developed people don\'t like doing even though they also might not enjoy doing them. This is what strength of character and courage is all about.
Tackle your weaknesses. Do the thing that you have consistently put off.
Write that thank you note or letter that you have neglected for so long.
Exercise your discipline muscles and they will rise to the occasion by filling your day with more satisfaction, more effectiveness and far more energy.
151. All individuals who have attained the highest of levels generally have cultivated the essential mental habit of optimism.
Without optimism, life loses its lustre and hardships appear at every step of the way.
This is an essential life habit.
152. Today, write down the seven best qualities of individuals who you admire and post this list by your bed.
Then, each morning as you rise, focus on a new quality which you will strive to implement during the day.
After one week, you will notice small differences in yourself. In one month, these traits will become firmly embedded.
After two months, all those important qualities will be yours.
character
153. You have as many reputations as you do acquaintances as each person you know thinks differently of you.
What should truly concern you is your character.
You have full control of this and this is what you must develop, refine and cultivate.
Once your character is strong and vigorous, then all else that is positive will follow.
154. Consider yourself as an orange. Only what is really inside can come out.
If you fill your mind with thoughts of serenity, positivity, strength, courage and compassion, when someone squeezes you, this is the only juice that can flow.
155. Our lives have been described as a parenthesis in eternity.
We are but a small blip on the stage of the Universe.
As we can take nothing with us when we leave, then the real meaning of our existence must be to give and serve others.
Keep this in mind. When you wake up early in the morning, repeat the mantra:
"I will serve others today, I will care for others today and I will be kind today.
" This kind of living will bring you huge returns if you stay on the purpose of aiding others rather than on the outcome of personal gain.
156. Be known as an innovator at your place of work. Sit down over the next week and write out ten suggestions for your supervisor as to how to improve the work being done and the quality of the workplace itself.
Be known as an idea person willing to discover challenges and tackle them with zest and enthusiasm.
157. Learn to laugh at yourself.
158. Keep open the windows of your mind.
159. Try to go through one full day without saying "I". Focus on others.
Listen to others and you will learn wonderful new things as well as gain friendships.
160. Spend one hour a day in full silence except in answer to direct questions.
Even then, answer directly and without extending the conversation unduly.
We, so very often, talk around subjects and repeat ourselves.
This ancient Eastern exercise will not only build your will-power but develop clarity and precision of language which is essential for effective communication
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